Goal Quotes

A goal without a plan is just a wish. - Antoine de Saint-Exupery

In the absence of clearly-defined goals, we become strangely loyal to performing daily trivia until ultimately we become enslaved by it.

- Robert Heinlein

We are what and where we are because we have first imagined it.

– Donald Curtis

You must have long term goals to keep you from being frustrated by short term failures.

- Charles C. Noble

In life, as in football, you won't go far unless you know where the goalposts are.

- Arnold H. Glasgow

Shoot for the moon, even if you miss, you'll land amongst the stars.

- Les Brown

If you don't know where you are going, you will probably end up somewhere else.

- Lawrence J. Peter

If you want to make your dreams come true, the first thing you have to do is wake up.

- J.M. Power

How am I going to live today in order to create the tomorrow I'm committed to

- Anthony Robbins

You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream.

- C.S Lewis

Making a decision was only the beginning of things. When someone makes a decision, he is really diving into a strong current that will carry him to places he had never dreamed of when he first made the decision.

– from The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho

It is in your moments of decision that your destiny is shaped

– Anthony Robbins

Nothing happens unless first a dream

– Carl Sandburg

I can't change the direction of the wind, but I can adjust my sails to always reach my destination.

- Jimmy Dean

Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.

- Winston Churchill

cruelty in life

Everyone wants something in life, love, money, success, recognition ... Yet too many people fail to realize their desires, and nearly all of them for the same reason. They seem to go whichever way the wheel turns, as if they have no control over their situation. If their vehicle takes them to places they never intended to be, or crashes into the brickwall of utter despair, that's just the cruelty of fate....but sometimes the cruelty in life teach u to be stronger to wake up and move forward..

my new motto

I will set my goals as high, and promise i won't stop trying till i get there.
I will not say i have fail bit i will tell that i have discovered 1000 ways that can cause failure.
I must consciously design my goals to direct myself to success by self improving myself in everything i do by giving it extra effort to work harder and be a better person.
I will, I can, I must

letting things out.. over stress...how do i feel...n y understnding me is difficult

letting things out.. over stress...how do i feel...n y understnding me is difficultShare

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Just because i have been quiet all this while, dosen't mean i dont have anything to say, its just that i don't want to waste my time saying it because no wont will ever understand. If I do judge people from my first impression on them, well that is how everybody will judge. I do rather wait forever for the perfect somebody to show me the perfect life, than settle for anybody who don't really have an idea who I am now. i have been unpredictable and spontaneous at times but it has help me to understand life better. In a way, i thoght I am a forgiving person but i realise its hard to forgive and forget and i have finally understand why is that now.
If i just enjoy being unique or wired dosen't make me childish because it makes me happy to go on. I do rather look immatured or over matured and just have fun than rather care what other people think about me or what they are going to say about me.Sometimes i can really be over confident, other times i just feel really insecure but for me its normal and isn't a crime to feel such a way.
My family, friends and my student means everything to me but some times i just want to be alone just to figure out myself who I want to be. i sometimes envy to see people who can fit in so easily n have an easy life without even working hard to be somewhere, when i have been trying with all my strengh to just help out my love ones to make life better. i really hope that sometimes these people who i care so much can just understand mefor why i do this.
I am opinionated and stubborn, but i am loyal, sincere and caring at times because i dont like showing feeling because it is not necessary. But i have promise myself to be the best if i choose to be in something in my life and whoeva who comes in to my life should want the best for me. Even if i can be the most annoying person.
just please stop making me fel guilty. I really hate it when someone makes me feel guilty to get their way in things, just give me a chance because i m really trying hard to not let anybody down. As who i am, i will always be the same person who i was eventhough things has change and i will still be there if you need me, i will listen if i have too, i will let out problems in me to make you understand, i will be as understanding as i can for thats all i can do, and maybe stick up for anything which comes in my way no matter what happen.

MAkiNg cHoiCes....

people might think i m going mad. but i jt dunno why there are so many of choices in this world.i never knew making one will be so difficult. i never had problems choosing and making a decision when it came to shopping buying shoes or my food or even my ice cream flavour but i now it is making me stress to actually make decision in work.. is it because the money is blinding me..but in a way i am not doing anything wrong..i m using it for all good purpose to give a helping hand to my family and to pay up myself without being too dependent on parents cause i m 21..for me 21 is abt taking responsibilities of yourself like my expense, my studies, my entertaiment n blah blah...

Waking up in the morning today with my mind so unpeacefull cause of un made decision running thrugh my head. I couldn't even stop thinking of it when i was brushing my teeth. i was figuring n calculating on my mindwhat i m gonna do, how much i will get n how m i gonna fit in with classes n tuition n all other things. Thinking about last night and the choices i hv to make today morning is stressful cause i m not able to think right on what to do and what to say to my teacher at work and see the importance of it specially my studies because both means a lot to me. i wish someone can make decision for me like how when i was small my parents did but now all my parents say is "ur big enough to know what is right ma"

i was still wondering what i need to do till lunch time but something jt help me to think more like a fantasy story said by some1wise to help people, this is mayb jt a small decision to be made from other bigger decision that i hv to make in the future. it can be stressfull with problems occuring in you making you feel guilty or however but its maybe jt a test to from god to see how you manage it.. though i dont believe so much in god but mayb this is how it works..n there is solution to it..it depends how u gonna take a step foward to solve it face it.

i discovered one thing today, that our lives are made up of choices that we hv to make, sometimes you make the right 1 n sometime the wrong 1 but remember to always stay POSITIVE, because no matter how bad things are now, life can always change for the BETTER, though its difficult to chosse because there are many choices, but it has to be done because there are bigger decision out there compared to mine.. and if they can make one, so can i, all i hv to do is do it n dont regret

the stupid thoughts running in my head...

Jt had to let out the thoughts that have been running in my head that kept me wondering for days as i think abt it.. as i realise a few things. The principle in life is abt competing againts yourself. Its abt self-improvrment abt being better than you were the day before. Its how you work for something by thinking big while doing small things, so all the things around you go the right direction, that might lead u to a small succes. It 's also like how you have to consciously design the steps you take towards achieving your goal by finding ways to direct yourself towars success. I personaaly feel that trying is no harm because if u fail it makes u stronger to try even more harder.. its like you are not human if you dont do mistake cause the best way of learning is through ur mistakes. Then i can say to myself proudly" i did not fail but i discovered the many ways how a person can fail'... its basically a cover line... but it works :0 yea!!
For the people, who say that u have to change..ask them to look at thier own mirror..it could be broken for they fail to discover themselve. The changes in you is the up n down that makes you wiser that keeps u on the move and by never giving up..its like taking the advice of the great king of pop advice to look at the mirror and also in helping the people..in making the world a better place..in changing for the better...

Experience to Language learning

My second language is “Bahasa Malaysia” which is known more better as the Malay language. I speak it with a fairly neutral Borneo accent, though this tends to change depending on who I'm talking to at times. I enjoy trying to mimic different regional accents like trying to speak like how the west Malaysian do with a lots of juncture and a slow way by adding the short phrases like le, ke, meh and many more. This is one of the reasons which are possibly why I developed such an interest in languages and learning TESL and speaking it in a wired way and also mixing the way I talk with the different regional of the east and west to get my own attention.
I moved with my parents when I was six years old and grew up in Sabah in the east side of Malaysia and stayed there for 15 years. This is when I used to have a bit of difficulty trying to speak like the Kadazan and the natives people there in Sabah with a thick way of pronouncing certain words because my first language was English. Thus, knowing that I stayed in Malaysia and the national language was Malay I had to know how to speak it in order to survive in Malaysia. I found a lot of difficulties when I transferred from Kuala Lumpur to Sabah but I was lucky and did not feel island because I had my elder sister with me. Things did not feel wired, when I spoke to her and my family.
But things were different when I started to go to school. I had to learn Malay because almost everybody spoke Malay in school. So I first tried speaking to them in English and the look at me n said “ooi na tengok ba orang ptih cakap” which means “hey... Look at how white people talk”. I felt so bad so I went back home and ask my Kakak at home who is my maid from Indonesia to help me because I spend most of my time with her because I had busy parents who I only see them on Sundays. So she came up with an agreement for me to learn and acquire Malay with conditions if I teach her English, she will teach me Malay. So everyday when I wanted something I had to ask her in Malay if not she wont answer me and that was how I improve and acquire Malay besides learning it at school as a compulsory subject.
On the other hand, being the only Indian at school in Sabah. I was always the center of attraction because there were a few of Indians there and Indians were highly respected because they were all doctors and somebody there. Besides that being an Indian and being good in my English because it was my mother tongue, I had my own advantages because lots of people didn’t know how to speak good English so they wanted to be my friend. In order to learn it, they needed my help so I had lot of friends because being able to switch and adopt myself to them and the surrounding.
So basically that was my experience to language learning which I learn a lot besides just acquiring it I also learn how to suit in a group.